Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Little by little

I know this post is a little longer, but I've had a lot on my mind recently about being in a wheelchair and some new discoveries. Please read on if you've got some time. When I became paralyzed, it took one step at a time, little by little, to accept the dramatic changes in my life. Initially, I thought that the injury was a simple one like a broken arm or so (painful but still manageable), so I brushed it off as something temporary and I'd be back together in no time. I even joked with my siblings that I would be on the slopes snowboarding if it weren't for this little hiccup. After two weeks, I was transported on a stretcher from the ICU to rehab. It was then that I realized that this was going to take some time to overcome. There were lots of therapy and healing ahead. In the meantime, my family and I were carried by the hope this was be an incomplete injury and chances of walking again were very likely. So I kept pushing hard.

A few weeks later, a doctor revealed his prognosis that this was a permanent injury and chances of walking again were unlikely. I never understood the expression, "the whole world crumbling to pieces" until that moment. It was so surreal. Admittedly, some of my hope and confidence of regaining feeling in my legs faltered that day. Those were a rough few weeks for me afterwards, to say the least. I cried and cried. Those were moments of great despair, loneliness, and helplessness. I didn't know what to do. The only thing I could do was turn to my comforter, my loving God. I remember many long conversations in that hospital room. I knew He understood exactly what I was feeling. He had sent His son to suffer even more for me. He had a plan for me and I had to trust that even though this seemed like an overwhelming burden to bear, everything will turn out OK, little by little. It was the trust in God's plan for me that saw me through to find solace and strength to move on...

God helped me trade my sorrows for a positive attitude. Paralysis was here to stay [at least for a while]. Dwelling on the "Why me" wasn't going to help with anything. There was still so much to live for and so many things I want do with my life - I needed to keep my head up and look towards those things. With God and my family by my side, I could do it. It took little steps at a time. I began by learning new ways to get dressed in the morning, then learning to scoot myself from place to place, then pushing myself up little hills, then making my own meals, to where I could perform daily tasks in my wheelchair all on my own. Eventually, I built up enough confidence to go back to school. I learned to overcome cognitive and physical limitations caused by taking necessary medications, and pushed myself through my courses. I worked towards my goal of making a difference in the world by volunteering and serving others. Little by little, life became more manageable. And little by little, I came to believe that I could live life to its fullest.




Meanwhile, I continued physical therapy to stay healthy and try to regain as much back as possible in that first year as doctors recommended. When nothing happened from months of physical therapy, not even a spasm, I was not discouraged. I kept living life and doing the things I loved. I haven't lost hope that something miraculous would happen (Never lose hope) and continue to follow the fascinating research of spinal cord regeneration. Little by little they were making progress. I was thrilled to read recently about a procedure with epidural stimulation that worked for 4 men with paralysis of over 4 years (like me). In this study, the health of these men increased dramatically and they were able to regain movement in their legs. I am hopeful that my life could improve because of this and I'm seriously, wonderfully excited. Imagine how much quicker and more efficiently I could do things with baby in one arm instead of having both arms tied from holding baby and wheeling. God is great. He blesses us with intelligence to discover new ways to improve our lives in so many ways. Cures to diseases, new medical procedures and technology, better foods, increased life span, etc. Why not paralysis? The possibilities are endless from here.

Friends, this has been an amazing journey thus far. I've learned much and continue to learn about myself and how to be a mom and wife each day, little by little. I'm so grateful for this discovery and I hope it continues. I ask for your support in the process as I'll be doing extensive reaching out to those involved in this case study and trying to sign up somehow. Anything you come across will be great. Remember, never give up.

Sunday, April 13, 2014

The Manly Man

Lots of people have different definitions of a manly man - how long you can grow your beard, how much you can bench press, how much meat you can eat in one sitting, how much you can shoot, how long you can go without showering… While those things are parts of being a man (more than they'd like to admit), I don't think they make a real manly man. A manly man is ultimately defined by something much more outwardly valuable - his heart and action.

By my definition, my father-in-law encompasses the qualities of a manly man. Not only does he build things, lift things, fix things, mow things - you know, manly things - he has so many other manly qualities that are turned into heart-led actions. For one, he's super good at fitting in with kids because he carries a fun, carefree, child-like nature with him through life. That goes very well when he plays with Boston. One of my favorite moments of him and Boston is when he puts Boston in skiing motions with sound effects and all. Grandpa gets Boston started on his favorite sport and Boston gets a huge kick out it. It's a win-win.

Another thing that sets him apart as a manly man is that he can admit when he is wrong and make necessary changes (learning from his mistakes).  I feel that people often get defensive when their faults are pointed out, which makes it difficult to approach them with concerns and solutions. But my father-in-law's humility in his weaknesses has proven to be one of his greatest strengths. He's so approachable and makes it easy for others to put their trust in him. That's probably why it's so easy for us kids to talk to him about everything. I appreciate that so much.

But his manliest quality of all is that he will sacrifice time that he could be doing something else, to be with his family. He always tells us that family is the greatest blessing in his life. Such a great example. Thanks, Dad. We have many wonderful memories of chats around the dinner table (he cooks a mighty meal), impromptu ice cream runs, short getaways and drives around Utah. We just love being with him because we know we'll get tons of laughs and life hacks, whether we ask for them or not.

The greatest perk of all this manliness is that he passed those traits on to my husband, who is also very manly. My husband's love for me has made my life that much better. For that, I am so grateful for my father-in-law [and mother-in-law]. I hope that one day, Boston will acquire these wonderful manly traits from his daddy and grandpapa.

Well, we just celebrated this manly man's birthday this week. We took him to out a very manly place - Five Guys' Burgers (always his go-to choice) and got great fresh burgers and fries.We are pretty lucky to have him. Happy Birthday, Dad!


What qualities make a man a manly man? Please feel free to share your own. These are what our boys will grow up with, so make them good!



Monday, April 7, 2014

Year of Dates - Captain America and Reunion

For Valentine's Day, I gave my husband a gift unlike any other I've given before. I gave him 12 envelopes, each containing a planned date for the two of us for the next year. A good date always includes the 3 P's: planned, paid for, and proper respect. The idea is to make sure that amidst all of our big kid duties such as working, caring for baby, chores, and taxes stuff, we find ways to fuel our relationship and have fun together (much better than taxes!). I cannot emphasize how important it is for couples to go on dates. It's a special time dedicated to just us, and allows us to keep an open communication so we can share our trials and triumphs. It also ensures we express our love for each other by spending time together. Plus it's fun getting out and doing things out of the ordinary together. I love the time I get to spend with my husband and am so excited for our dates. There are so many cool activities to look forward to.

Because of our last-minute vacation in March, we missed our date to see the Festival of Colors at the Hare Krishna temple. But we repented this month. For our date, AJ and I put on our Captain America tees and went to see the new movie, The Winter Soldier. It was an incredibly well-made movie filled with action and humor. We were kept on our toes the entire time. I loved it as I do the other Marvel movies (I'm a semi-geek about these movies, as in I don't know all the details from the comics but seriously enjoy the movies).  However, because of the violence, I wouldn't recommend it for kids younger than 13.

Afterwards, we grabbed shawarma at Kebab King in the Provo Towne Center mall (the only place I know of in Provo that serves shawarma), just as they did at the end of the Avengers movie. That was such a delicious meal - veggies, fries, and meat all in a wrap with special sauce - it definitely hit the spot. This took us down memory lane as there was kebab everywhere we went in Europe. There was also a coolness factor about shawarma because our favorite superheroes eat shawarma as well!


We had a wonderful time together. I loved talking about all sorts of stuff with my husband and was reminded of why I chose him to be my companion through the crazy times - he always keeps me laughing! He really doesn't mind being silly just to put a smile on a face and I appreciate that so much. I love our absurdities...

Afterwards, we picked baby up and went over to spend some time with old buddies from AJ's LDS mission in Massachusetts. I love our reunions because we get to listen to tons of stories from the past, catch up on current ones, and look forward to new ones with really good friends. I love the solidarity in sharing victories and happy moments with these dear friends. Needless to say, we were able to spend some precious few hours with them and got to share our baby Boston as well!

I enjoyed date night and can't wait for the next one. I am looking for a way to make up for March's date, so if you think of something fun, please do share! If you're doing date nights with your spouse too, please help trend #yearofdates !!

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Thursday, April 3, 2014

Family Spring Break in Florida 2 - Disney and Siesta Key

One of the highlights of our time in Florida was being able to meet up with my friends and go to Disney World with them. On Friday evening, after a hefty day of excitement at Universal Studios with the family, my college friend Megan texted to let me know she and her husband, Justin were living in Orlando and invited us to Disney World. What a special treat! Getting to see old friends in a new place is always so much fun, but getting to do it at Disney - I couldn't think of anything better.

Animal Kingdom and Hollywood
So serendipitously, we found ourselves at Disney (AJ, Holly, Boston, and me) with Megan and Justin and had an epic time with them catching up on life since graduation and going around Animal Kingdom. Not only did they take us to all of the spots we had to hit up like the white-cheeked gibbons (which we LOVE because they're so cute and funny to watch. I imagine life as a monkey must be pretty carefree and fun!), Expedition Everest (I loved the Himilayas theme, big foot, and the crazy turns, very exciting ride), Kali River Rapids (got totally soaked), but they even offered to watch baby for us while we went on rides (unfortunately child swap was not as quick and easy as it had been at Universal)! They did such a great job with baby even with us being gone for so long because of the never-ending queue. We came back to one happy camper.





Our favorite was the Kilimanjaro Safari, which we were able to take baby on and got to see tons of beautiful animals up close like giraffes, zebras, and crocodiles. He was so alert and calm throughout the ride. If this is a sign that he likes animals, we might feel inclined get him a puppy someday [even though I'm terrible with animals and killed multiple gold fish growing up]. This mini safari refueled my desire to go on a safari in Africa and see many more beautiful animals in their natural habitat! How about that, Megan and Justin? Safari in Africa next time? (I'm so serious!) Side note: I loved the eco-friendly conservation theme that Disney brought in throughout the park to raise awareness. Also, make sure to stop at the Wilderness Explorers booth (like in "Up") so your kids can be on the lookout for all of the different animals in the park and learn more about them while collecting fun sticker badges. Holly loved it and even wanted to come back just to finish the badges. Adventure is out there!


Next, we hit up Hollywood Studios where we had to part ways with our friends soon after (so sad, but so good while it lasted). We were grateful they gave us so much of their time and company. This park was a little more big kid friendly - perfect for Holly. We took turns going on rides and hanging out with her. We LOVED Tower of Terror and Rocking Roller coaster, which were both 30 min -1 hour long waits. Gosh I just adore this little girl and seeing how excited she gets about everything. Taking care of her is like taking care of my own little child. We are 15 years apart (17 years for AJ) and that could very well make her my daughter, which people seem to think everywhere we go. She's basically Boston's big sister and is so helpful. We were so glad to have her there with us. Finally, we finished off our night by going see Fantasmic and be dazzled by the incredible fireworks and water show. Wonderful day!



Siesta Key
The next day was spent helping baby recover from strange vomiting over the last 12 hours. We had to give him Pedialyte for the first time, which he wasn't fond of. I was glad our parents were there to help so I didn't freak out as much because this has never happened before. We drove 2 hours south of Orlando and hung out at Siesta Key. It was a beautiful day. We laid down our towels and basked in the fresh air, warm sun, white sand beach, and warm water from the Gulf of Mexico for a few hours. Holly had the best time swimming in the water, building sand castles, picking up seashells, and running away from AJ. She had so much energy! I think it was also good for baby because he was fine the whole time and even had some fun with Daddy.



I stayed away from the water the whole time because I was still recovering from a burn accident from the week before (doctor's order). I took this time to be the spectator and enjoy my family's beautiful moments from the outside looking in. I loved watching AJ play with Boston and Holly in the water and my in-laws being so sweet to each other. We are by no means a perfect family, but we do have these picture perfect moments that will be captured in my mind forever and ever. So much laughter, excitement and love. My family makes this great joy a possibility for me and for that, I am immensely thankful. These are the moments I live for.

Epcot
That night, another sweet friend from college, Allison contacted me and we got to meet up with her at Epcot for a bit before we left Florida. We had a great time wandering through the beautiful annual topiary fest that's going on right now (March-April). Every little detail was well-executed to give the park an extra bit of something special for the season. There were topiaries of story characters like the Lion King, Peter Pan, and Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. There was also a section dedicated to butterflies so we got to see them flying around among sweet smelling flowers.  Because there are so few rides at Epcot, everyone and their moms were in line for those few extending the wait time to over an hour each. So we opted out of those and just explored.



Epcot is broken up into countries around the world and you can find foods and different characters in their proper sections such as Belle in France and Mary Poppins in England. We especially love the Japanese section which includes Studio Ghibli characters (we're obsessed) although their items go for absurd prices (a Totoro dish set for $130?). There was also scrumptious foods like kakigori (flavorful shaved ice with sweeten condensed milk on top. So good) and sushi. There are generally other goods there like a taiko drums show and a Japanese candy lady. AJ and I love them. I could spend all day here, but we didn't have that kind of time on this trip. Nonetheless, it was so awesome to get to see Allison and her baby. Like I said, it's a such a treat to get to see friends again, especially really awesome ones like these ones.

Well that's it. Cheers to an awesome family adventure! We had so much fun and look forward to going back again. If you're looking for a place for your family to visit, I guarantee you'll love Florida!


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Saturday, March 29, 2014

Family Spring Break in Florida 1 - Universal Studios

It's been a few days since we stepped off the plane from our whimsical family trip to Florida this past week and back into reality. Admittedly, I am still in a magical daze and want that feeling to linger a little while longer. We had so much fun and are still in awe by the amount of walking (wheeling for me) and activities we fit in six days. Our journey varied from day to day, mostly with general plans for the day and lots of vacation flexibility and FUN! Just the way we like it. I meant to write each day, but was so tired by the end of each day, so I'll break up our activities into various posts.

Hiccups and Relaxation
Our trip had a little rocky start. Upon our arrival in Orlando, I learned that my wheelchair had been damaged when I struggled to push myself around. The axel of one of my wheels was bent, leaving my chair wobbly and difficult to wheel around. The wheelchair damage wasn't the first by airline travel, but it was the worst. I was a bit frustrated because it felt like someone had carelessly thrown my chair around which is basically like reckless care of my legs. Fortunately, the person in charge of damaged goods for my airline was so kind and helpful, which made this hiccup that much more bearable. I appreciated him so much. We arranged to meet with a local vendor and get things squared away that day. Unfortunately, the parts weren't going to make it to Orlando in time, so I would have to spend the rest of our trip in a crummy wheelchair. No fun.

But there were plenty of blessings to look forward to during the rest of our trip. For one, we stayed at my Brazilian friend, Thaise's family vacation home, so we had a very spacious home all to ourselves for the week. That was reason enough to be happy and so grateful. It was better than any hotel we've ever stayed at before. The house had a large window that overlooked a beautiful lake and gave full view of sunrise. There were plenty of rooms on each of the three floors and a well-equipped kitchen to prepare meals and save some moolah. The main floor was perfectly wheelchair accessible with wide doors, tons of space, a humungous bed, walk-in closet -- it's almost like it was made for me! Little Holly loved the pool on the bottom floor which she took advantage of almost every day.




We planned out some meals but made sure to hit up Checkers for dinner one night, which we were thrilled about because there are no fully loaded fries in Utah. We watched "Frozen," which for the rest of the trip AJ just kept singing the line, "Do you want a snowman," without knowing the rest of the words. Funny man. We also made a trip to Wal Mart for some goods for the week. It felt like I was in mini-Brazil with all the Portuguese I heard -- I was in heaven. There were so much traffic and crazy in Orlando because the theme parks are such a huge tourist destination.

Harry Potter, Butter Beer and Wetness
We got three-day passes to Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure, where there was a buy 2-days get the third free deal. We packed some snacks and plenty of water headed over to the Islands of Adventure. On the way in, a man approached me and asked why I was in a wheelchair (happens a lot) so I told him about my accident. He then gave me a little charm from his country and told me in Spanish that is symbolizes healing.

Our first stop was Harry Potter World which my little sister was so excited about. This is my third time here, and whether it's January, March, or June, Hogsmead is always jammed pack with visitors. It may be because I'm in a wheelchair, but I was feeling a bit claustrophobic because there were people packed in everywhere, but luckily I made it passed that. We absolutely loved the Dragon Challenge ride, although I was worried that my shoes would fall off the whole time because it was going so fast and there were so many loops and twists. Fun!

We waited in the massive line for the Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey ride, which I absolutely loved. The squirting large spider was probably my favorite, but then again I don't have arachnophobia like my husband does. To get to my special seat for wheelchairs, I had to go through a secret entrance that is obviously not equipped for traffic, but always seems to be a problem. It was still worth the wait though. We opted out of waiting in line for the wand shop and walked around Hogsmead, got our pictures with the train conductor who was Scottish (love my Scots) and had delicious butter beer approved by J.K. Rowling herself.

Boston got tons of attention from admirers all throughout the park. They kept commenting on his luscious full head of hair and baby sunglasses (he loves them!), it was too cute to handle.



Holly's swimmer's heart dragged AJ and me to the wettest of rides, Popeye & Bluto's Bilge-Rat Barges, and Dudley Do-Right's Ripsaw Falls. AJ, who was the most reluctant got the brunt of the wetness on each ride but took it really well. What a trooper! I hadn't ridden these rides before so the anticipation was the worst part for me. Some of the older rides were not wheelchair accessible like the Ripsaw Falls with logs that were physically impossible for me to get into, so my husband had to carry me into them. It's times like these that make me so grateful to have help because it really makes my disability more manageable in an able world. I thought I wouldn't mind getting wet, but I was definitely ready for home afterwards after being drenched with water. If you go these rides, wear a swimming suit or bring a change of clothes. There were human drying machines available for $5 but I certainly didn't want to pay for that. It was a good thing we saved the wet rides for the end and were able to stay until the park closed. That was enough to keep Holly's heart content...until the next day.

Sleepy Baby, Long Lines, and Hard Rock
The humidity hit baby the worst since day one. He was so tired as we pushed him around in his umbrella stroller [from Wal Mart] so we he slept a lot. It was a little worrisome because he wasn't eating as much, which meant dehydration. So we did our best to keep him in cool shady areas, apply lots of sunscreen, and keep him awake, which he wasn't too happy about. We didn't get to do any rides with baby at Universal because the noises startled him and made him cry from the get go, yes, even the Shrek ride. We'll just have to wait until he gets a bit bigger :) In the line for Shrek, I discovered another perk of being in a wheelchair. Baby had a poopxplosion and we were able to change baby's diaper right on my lap, with a blanket over me of course :)




There were tons of people at Universal Studios this day, which may be a combination of Spring Break and the weekend. That meant long, long wait time for rides so we didn't cover as much as we wanted. But it was OK because we still had another day to make up for it. The trick is to get to the parks a lot earlier in the morning when other people were still asleep.

Of course we had to hit up the World's Largest Hard Rock for some awesome burgers and fries and special rock and roll memorabilia. This was the first Hard Rock we'd ever been to together and AJ celebrated his 25th birthday here while we on our honeymoon, so it holds a special place in our heart. Ever since, we've tried to  hit up every Hard Rock in the major cities we visit including the ones in Europe. We learned from our waiter that the memorabilia here constantly change because it is the perfect testing ground for new products with ever-changing visitors. This time around, I ordered the local legendary which comes with mac and cheese and bacon on the burger. It was super hardy and surprisingly delicious. I loved it and would definitely order it again!

Well, that's it for now about our trip to Florida. If you have any questions about tips on wheelchair access or family activities at these theme parks, please contact me. More to come on our Spring Break in Orlando beyond Universal Studios. This post was happily shared on  photo 0b596c19-7bb3-4256-89d4-2ff3932da329_zpse9b1cc3f.jpg

Monday, March 17, 2014

Look to this day

Look to this day, for it is life, the very life of life.

In its brief course lie all the realities and truths of existence;
the joy of growth, the splendor of action, the glory of power.

For yesterday is but a memory,
and tomorrow is only a vision;

but today well lived makes every yesterday a memory of happiness
and every tomorrow a vision of hope.

Look well, therefore, to this day.

-ancient Sanskrit poem

Yesterday is connected today as today is connected to tomorrow. However, the most important day is today as it the product of yesterday and the determinant of tomorrow. Be careful because with the blink of an eye, that day is gone and we can't have it back so make today count. Today, I changed up my life a little. I worried less about checking things off of my to-do list (ugh…too many things) and focused more on the little moments that matter most throughout the day. You know, the moments that we get to spend with people we love to build our relationship with them.

Today, I held on a little bit longer to my darling baby boy, basked him in extra love, gave him a few extra kisses, and play with him until he fell asleep. Each moment with my son today is a chance to leave an imprint on his little mind. It is a quick fleeting moment to let him know how much he is undoubtedly loved.. He may not fully understand what is going on right now, but I believe he can feel all of the love from smiles and touch (there is such power with touch). Now is the opportunity for me to build a relationship with him for tomorrow.



Today, I focused on holding meaningful conversations with my husband and parents. I caught up on their thoughts, feelings, accomplishments, and goals to keep communication fresh and open. We shared stories and laughter, which make these moments so memorable. My husband, baby and I went on a Sunday stroll and enjoyed the beautiful warm weather around the neighborhood.  We talked about lots of different things. We got excited about our upcoming trip in a few days. My favorite conversation was about the goals we have together because they are so simple yet spectacular :) mainly surrounding travel.

Today, I read a letter from my brother who is on a church mission in Cambodia about the things he and his companion are experiencing in their services. We write back and forth every Sunday. I internalized his words. I was sad when he expressed his struggles and happy to hear success and learning. I sent more love and positive energy his way to let him know that I care so much about him.

Lastly, AJ and I made a goal this year to improve relationships with friends and build new ones. On Friday, we went on a double date with some friends from college days, Rebekah and Anthony to grab frozen yogurt (the cool flavors and toppings are to die for!) and played Taboo and Heads Up (such hilarious games!). It was a memorable time to say the least.


In doing all of this, I realized how much these relationships mean to me. They make me feel so grateful that Heavenly Father has put all of these amazing people in my path. Out of the millions of people out there, our paths were chosen to have serendipitously crossed. I don't know where we're all headed next, but we're better people for having known each other now. It's amazing how He knows me so well as to provide just the right people to share these tender moments with. I believe that my relationship with my Heavenly Father through prayer and choices I make daily allow me this opportunity to have great relationships with others. And for that, I am truly grateful.

This quote reminded me that each day on this earth is a finite gift from Heavenly Father specifically granted for us to become better people. We must focus on what matters most to us and treat it like so. For me, the most cherished treasures in my life are my Heavenly Father, my family and my friends. With that said, it's pertinent that I work on these relationships as best I can. Each day spent with them is another opportunity to grow and love them even more. They are instrumental in building my yesterday of memories and tomorrow of visions. Furthermore, look to the beauty of the beauty around you, look to the blessings you been granted, look to what makes you happy. You'll find the results are countless. I hope that you find what matters most to you and treasure them today.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Can't Wait for Spring Break

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When I was in college, we never had Spring Break. Yeah, not a single one in the many years I was in school (I went to a church school). It was torture. I found it so hard to sit still during lectures on those really beautiful, sunshine-filled days. I remember looking outside and having to resist the urge to grab a blanket to lay down on the grass.  I lived for the those spring holidays like MLK Day and Presidents' Day so I could take a break, I mean uh, celebrate our nation's heroes. I'm super stoked to say that this year, since BOTH my husband and I are graduated and out of school, we get to go on "spring break" as in, a break around the spring time, but still before school children get out and overrun every desirable location. So this year, our family destination is Orlando, Florida!

I've been waiting for months to go on another adventure since life was stagnant after returning from Europe this past year. It was not enough adventure for my wanderlusting soul. The pregnancy (an adventure of its own) and my rigorous Goldman Sachs internship in Salt Lake made it a bit difficult to travel last summer. Adventure was much called for to spice up our lives again. Our mini-trip to Vegas last November was good enough to hold us over, but I was on to planning our next trip the moment we got home. I knew baby really, really wanted that :) I kept researching our different options and how we could finagle our way into a trip somewhere. The opportunity arose in the form of some flight tickets my in-laws needed to cash in, vacation time AJ needed to use up, and my friend's vacant lake house in Orlando (We stayed here on our honeymoon. Thanks, Nagumos!). So yes, we get to go to Florida to explore, hang out, and have fun with the family. Again, our three priorities there are to Explore, Hangout, and Have FUN. And with the family, an awesome adventure is surely in the making. This time next week, we'll be on our redeye flight (with our 6-month-old baby, yikes!) to Orlando and 80 degree weather. Simple, right? Kind of.

Family vacations take tons of planning in advance, which is the thrill and headache of the process. Schedules, finances, flights, places to stay, tickets to shows and amusement parks, maximizing time and balancing activities all come into play. There are lots of details to consider ahead of time to minimize frustrations and optimize fun later on. Though, it's all worth it in the end and we can always expect an adventure. I guarantee it. I'm so excited for this trip and hope my family will have a blast! Come along on our adventure during the coming week! What adventures are you planning this Spring Break? Do you have any suggestions of family activities within a 2 hour driving radius of Orlando?

Looking forward to this:
Left: Thaise and me at Siesta Key, FL. Right: Me and AJ at Harry Potter World, Orlando, FL.